Monday, April 6, 2009

Because It's All in My Head

Being a remarkable friend comes with alot of duties. In some point in time it develops in to a unique relationship. With out a doubt, you have listened to the same stories over and over again. The same problems human beings encounter every single day of their lives. The only difference is the person who is telling them. And you do the exact same thing, you sit attentively and listen. You provide the same advice but deep down you know a person will do what they want regardless of what you say. A person can only inhale or consume so much. When a person is ready to let go, that day will come, and they will never go back. So the next time your sitting in the same chair, ask yourself one question: Are they tired of hearing my shit over and over again? Peace.

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

if a "FRIEND" really got tired of hearing you out weather it was repetitive & judges based on ur decisions i dont think "FRIEND" is the correct choice of word, how about acuaintance?

Anonymous said...

NAW. The question at the end of the paragraph is, "are they tired of hearing MY shit?" The friend is not tired of hearing out her FRIENDS. That's what FRIENDS are there for. The point of the paragraph is questioning yourself. How exhausting of telling the same story over an over again without making any of changes..durrrr.

Anonymous said...

alls i know is this... the small circle of friends i do have (small circle seems appropriate and sensible) most people are acquaintances. and these acquaintances, whom i do not repeat the same story to over and over again are the reason why i do not call them friends. my friends listen to me, i listen to them, no matter what the cost. i've heard the same words spoken over time and time again from my girls. i listen. and vice versa. you hold the key to your happiness. whether or not external situations fit into your happiness, they still play a role; and friends should listen, even if that role repeats like a broken record.
-Trace

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Anonymous said...

A person once told me, if your the one dealing with the problem, and ur constantly complaining about it to people, just shut the F up and deal with it. Ppl chose to be there! Y complain about it??? N of course ur "friends" will listen, but jus stop feeding them the same soup! If your complaining but not changing a damn thing......yo fault!