Sunday, October 10, 2010

Common Sense

I'm up studying, well not anymore, I'm presently blogging. Tonight's topic is common sense. (Clearing throat)

Ladies, sometimes you have to stop and think about the situation you're in. You meet this guy, really nice fellow, perhaps good looking, great personality but he just doesn't seem like the relationship type. Yet, that's most likely what attracts you to him. The majority of women are attracted to these type of men. The other small percentage will end up with great guys, that they'll probably be with for the rest of their lives but like I said, that's a very small percentage.

If you build and start a relationship based on a lie, if the truth isn't present, well then guess what, your relationship will crumble the same way. Let's say you meet this guy, he claims he doesn't have a girlfriend, when in reality he's been on and off a relationship for three and a half years, but he never mentions this to you. He doesn't mention her at all.

Until one day, his girlfriend calls you to find out what's going on. What in the world makes you think this guy is going to change his ways for you? No matter what crap or lies he's feeding you, the facts are there. Don't blind yourself, avoiding the truth will only get you so far, but how far you're willing to stick around is the real question.

So ladies, if you know the man you're with at the time, lied to you from the beginning, do yourself a favor and just walk away while you can. If he cheated and lied to the woman he supposedly loved, you can only imagine the things he would do behind your back. Just sharing some  light and advice on this subject.

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

O lord... well i guess i can say im that small percentage.....but u know guys will be guys but then they grow into men... thnx to us women they grow into men but yes true if it starts from a lie the whole thing will be a lie.... lies lies lies...p.s love u n this SONG u have.....Cris...

PQT said...

Yes Cris, you would be part of that small %. Hyp is a special being :) You know I love Erykah Badu, always have. Love you too! Maybe they will change for the right one, buy if there lying from the get go, you are not the right one sweetie.

Anonymous said...

lol...

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