Thursday, August 5, 2021

Right On

"I have no energy for hate. I either love you, wish you well, or hope you heal." - Pammy D.S.

Pammy said it best! Hate is such a strong word. When I overhear my son and or my bonus children use that word I tell them, "Hate is such a strong word, use the word dislike instead." And then they repeat the sentence with the word dislike in it. The energy used to hate someone must be exhausting. I honestly wouldn't know. Alike Pammy, I either wish you well or hope you're doing good. Or I hope you heal from the things that you can't discuss or bring yourself to say out loud. Whatever that is, feel what you need to feel but let it go. Don't hold on to it, don't be consumed by it, lighten that load. 

Tuesday, August 3, 2021

Thursday, July 29, 2021

Ariana Grande - positions

"Perfect, perfect
You're too good to be true
But I get tired of running
Fuck it, now I'm running with you"

Monday, July 26, 2021

Just Be

"The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are."

- Carl Jung

Thursday, July 22, 2021


Dealing with a narcissistic individual has been one of the hardest, most draining experiences in my lifetime. Luckily, I was able to do my research, disengage, and cut ties with this individual for good. As an empath, my nature is to try to understand and connect with people. And alike many other empaths' I tried to find the good in them.

A person with narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) can be anyone regardless of gender, sexuality, or religion. The best way to deal with a narcissist is to limit contact or if possible, have no contact at all. For victims of NPD, the emotional attachment is harder to cut loose than the actual contact itself. Another thing that I learned is not to engage. Do not take the bait, do not respond, do not try to defend yourself - nothing you say matters. They've made up their mind about you and in their eyes you're either a good or bad person, there's no in between. NPDs are not capable of change (even with professional help). 

Wednesday, July 21, 2021

Chloe x Halle - Drop

"But time stops
When your beat drops
It's too strong, long
But time stops
When your beat drops
Turn if off, off, off, off"

Saturday, July 3, 2021


I’m a simple woman to an extent. 

I don’t need much to make me content. 

People are molded by experiences and 
life lessons that either turn them bitter or better. 

Traits composed of ethical morality or bliss ignorance
that ultimately defines their character.

A stranger to those who knew you then and 
a place that feels like home to those that know you now. 

I’ve learned that happiness is self-made and 
materialistic things don’t bring me the same joy 
as a persons laughter or touch. 

I've learned that falling love 
has its own phases of metamorphosis,
that it's an on going process of growth and transformation.

I’ve learned that after certain people pass 
they either make you feel something profound or nothing at all.

Lastly, I’ve learned that age undoubtedly 
is just a number and that it doesn't define you in anyway. 

Here’s to being 34 and fabulous!

Celebration (In a Small Way)


Birthday calls from my nieces in a werewolf filter of course, brunch at Lucille's, cat balloons, succulents, wine, and some PDA with my favorite person under a neon Pegasus. 

Wednesday, June 30, 2021

Japanese Denim

"My blue jeans
Will last me all my life
So should we
I'm spending all this time"